...actually, Rosie. Mom says she's ready, and wants to go. Although we'd like to have her hang around for a few more years, being bedridden and not being able to do anything for yourself is no way to live, much less exist. The time has come, and Mom, we're ready to let you continue your journey. We can take care of each other. With four sons and their wives, eight grandkids, some with spouses, and nine great-grandkids, you and Pappy left a helluva legacy. Go across the Rainbow Bridge, find Pappy, and be at peace. It's okay to let go. We love you...
Merlin,
I am truly at a loss for words. I lost my mum almost 7 years ago and my Step-dad a year after. I feel you sorrow and I also know when it's time to let go and let her continue on her journey alone.
You are in my thoughts and I hope you and your family can pull together and give her the strength she needs to continue on.
Fair wind and following seas Ms Rosie, know you have raised you crew well, and they can take the helm at this point and sail on into the wind.
Good journeys, Miss Rosie... your rest is hard won and well deserved. You've raised your family well, and given them what they need to carry on... and have declared yourself ready for whatever new adventures await within the Great Mystery. That takes courage and strength of heart, and from all accounts you've always had an abundance of both. I'll burn a candle to light the first few steps for you, although I believe your own inner light will take over from there.
I'll be thinking of you, and your wonderful family, as you cross...
Peaceful journeys, Miss Rosie.
I was once told by my own Mother there is no such place as far away. Those words carried me to many foriegn countries and helped me survive several combat zones; It is truly amazing just how far a mothers hand can reach. She passed several years back and yes I have those times when I miss her but can truly say she was right as usual...There is no such place as far away. I still feel her reassuring touch often and when needed most. Rosie take your place amongst the stars and know that those you have left behind will always have you near them. Sweet and Peaceful journey.
May you have a peaceful journey, Rosie. You have left the world a wonderful legacy: your family.
Thanks, everyone. The nurse said that it should be today or tomorrow. For Mom's sake, I hope they're right.
Merlin, I'm sorry. I know it's hard, no matter the circumstances. Peaceful thougts sent for you and your family, and of course for your Mother.
Thoughts, condolences, and lots of good vibes to the Merlin family! May she enjoy the fabulous party with friends & family I'm sure's waiting for her on the other side!
Peacefull rest Rosie,though we have never met on this orb we will al be be friends some day.
Mom took her last breath at 2:10 this morning. I love you, Mom. Tell Pappy "Hi" for us.
Hugs, Merlin. I'm certain Miss Rosie and Pappy are getting reacquainted.
Merlin Hugs and hugs and more hugs from Dragon and I. I feel your loss, but now she can rest and be with your Pappy.
Your family is in my Thoughts a prayers at this time.
Our deepest condolences friend.
My deepest condolences for your loss.
The next best things to family are friends. Your thoughtful and caring words, here, in private messages, and in emails, are all comforting and appreciated more that you know.
Just a week ago, I visited Mom and carried the beautiful portrait that Lady Gryphon had presented to us at our renewal last week. Mom was all excited and loved the portrait. I told her I would make her a copy. I thought I had a little more time.
One of my brothers called us out Saturday evening because Mom was talking "spiritual," I think is how he put it. We got out there, and she told me she was ready. She was obviously weaker that only a few days before, but we talked, and I made her laugh a few times, and assured her that if she was ready, those of us staying behind would take care of things for her, not to worry.
Then she and her four sons held hands, and she told us to take care of each other. There was nothing more important to her than her family, and she wanted her family to get along. For crying out loud, Mom! We're brothers! We're supposed to fight! It's in the Brothers' Handbook or something! Luckily, we're too old now to hit very hard without hurting ourselves, so Ma, you don't have to worry. We'll never fill the holes left in our hearts by the absence of you and Pappy.
Please accept my condolences on your loss.
And thusly go soft and sweet into that good night.
*Huggz for Merlin and Nim*
Condolences Merlin - Our thoughts are with you.
Nothing but good thoughts and positive energy for you and yours.
You and your family have all of our thoughts and prayers, dear friend.
So very sorry for your loss my friend.
Condolences from Shado and I, Merlin. Our love to you and your family. Your Mom sounds like she was a wonderful Lady. *HUG*
Quote from: Lady Kett on April 24, 2012, 08:40:03 AM
Hugs, Merlin. I'm certain Miss Rosie and Pappy are getting reacquainted.
Knowing Mom, she's chewing on his arse about something, and he's rolling his eyes. What a pair!
Quote from: Merlin the Elder on April 25, 2012, 08:33:03 AM
Quote from: Lady Kett on April 24, 2012, 08:40:03 AM
Hugs, Merlin. I'm certain Miss Rosie and Pappy are getting reacquainted.
Knowing Mom, she's chewing on his arse about something, and he's rolling his eyes. What a pair!
Ah, characters breed characters, don't they?
My condolences, Merlin. You're in our prayers.
(( Hugs))
Reflecting on the time when my mother passed I could not decide should I mourn or should I rejoice? My mother was a devout Christian strong in faith combine that with my own personal beliefs and faiths then there is but a simple conclusion. Moms body was being placed in the ground She on the other hand was just making a change in her address. Mom had eight kids and you have to be some kind of Angel in order to raise that many hellions and not eat your young. Merlin the next few days will not be easy as you place Rosie in her resting place but remember to laugh as well as cry for there room for both. My thoughts and energies are with you and so is Rosie trust me my mom still lets me know when I screw up and she has been gone several years now.
We'll be gathering in a couple hours to pay last respects and say goodbye. My sincerest thanks to all.
Be at peace today Merlin. Transition is only a change of address as Rabbi stated.
Good thoughts and energy to you my friend of the realm. Thou we have spoken only on the electronic highway,I still consider you a friend.. Peace be with you!!
I'm sorry for your loss Merlin.
I wish I knew the words that would comfort you.
Ferret
I appreciate it, my friends. I am at peace with it all. Don Antonio de Los Torres, a new member of this board (Bob to you, Archer) was kind enough to do the memorial. He has been a friend of mine and of the family for nearly a half century. He married Nimue and I the first time. He has an amazing way with words! Then my son gave the eulogy. Trust me when I say that Don Antonio is a hard act to follow, but Christopher was the one who could do it. I will provide a link to the eulogy once he sends me an electronic copy. It is poignant and funny...just what Granny Rosie would have loved.
My family and I are extremely grateful to all of you for your kind and warm thoughts. My baby brother read a note that Mom wrote in her final days, "If you can't remember me and laugh, don't remember me at all." So, Mom, I would have loved to have taken you to Scarby, but you probably would have pissed off Christoph, the Insulter. I know you too well...
(((HUGS))) to you, Merlin.
I am glad you have found your peace with this difficult time, my friend... and happy that you have so many moments of laughter to think on.