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Title: Bad situation...
Post by: jinx on November 02, 2008, 01:27:29 PM
I can't really talk about it...and I don't want to, because I already got static from the one person in my life not involved in said situation that I thought would understand and be caring.  I just need...something positive.  I wish I could ask for understanding, too, and caring, and a little love...but I can't, because I can't handle the pretentiousness that I know would come from a LOT of people.  It's just that someone I love very dearly messed up rather badly, and it's going to effect my life every bit as much as it's going to effect theirs, and I don't need yet another person telling me how stupid they were, or anything like that.  I just need a hug and a little encouragement, and some wishes or prayers for things to turn out better than we're assuming. 
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: Tipsy Gypsy on November 02, 2008, 04:02:30 PM
You got it. It really sucks pond water when someone disappoints you badly. Good things come from bad things, though, and I hope that holds true for you soon. Hugs to ya.
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: renren on November 02, 2008, 04:16:32 PM
((hugs))
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: lordwriothsley on November 02, 2008, 07:30:44 PM
Jinx I agree with you on this,It sucks to be in situation like that but always remember that it takes a bad situation to get better and I truly believe that things get better for you in the long run.I will send you lots of love,hugs,and positive energy.Hang in there and have faith sweetie cause everything will be alright.
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: jinx on November 05, 2008, 01:46:47 PM
Thanks everyone.  <3

Things got...kinda worse last night.  My former "best friend" showed up last night to, once again, accuse my husband of being unfaithful.  I say former and put best friend in quotes because she's...never -really- been a best friend.  This is the third time she's made this accusation.  All three times, I have been able to dig out the truth.  Never from her, of course, but I've known her long enough and well enough to know when she's lying. 

Frankly, I trust my husband more than her.  *shrug*  Maybe it's weird to do that, but I do.

I really shouldn't be venting about it here, I guess, but it's sooo like her to take a bad situation and make it worse, and it hurt me that she'd do something like that. 
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: Tygrkat on November 05, 2008, 01:57:25 PM
{{Hugs}}

Some people have nothing worthwhile going on in their lives, and they feel the need to try to make everyone around them as miserable as they are...I'm sorry that you have a person like this buzzing around...*hands over an industrial sized can of Rid-O-Pest*...maybe this will help... ;)




*eta*....there are few people I trust more than my Husband - it's not weird...IMO, that just means you picked the right one  :)
Title: Re: Bad situation...
Post by: lordwriothsley on November 05, 2008, 02:59:34 PM
jinx I'm sorry to hear that things got worse for you.You are right she was never really a best friend or a real friend for that matter cause of all the accusations she made about your hubby.As long as you know that he was faithful to you that's all that matters,I mean hell the ring is on your finger not her's.Anyway I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers and pray that this situation will get better sooner than later.Hugs to you sweetie.