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Title: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on November 26, 2008, 08:19:21 PM
I weep as I write these words...a squirrel friend has passed.

Some of you have met my dear friends, Stan and Sharon, of Kempner, Texas, during our recent trips to Scarby and TRF, as well as at MDRF. They are two of our extended family, and we love them dearly. I just received the sad, sad news that Sharon passed away today.

Sharon was a lovely lady, with a gentle, loving, almost fae-like soul. She was an outstanding horse-woman, gardener, and ren-fest enthusiast. She was an army veteran. Her husband, Stan, is on active duty there in Texas, and has done numerous deployments to the Middle East. Sharon was one of our own, a squirrel friend and member of the Elfwine Clan. We will miss her...words fail me...

I humbly ask that you all offer prayers and meditations to your guiding spirits, who or whatever they may be, for Sharon and her family, especially her grieving husband. They were a couple who were destined for each other, and truely, dearly loved each other.

We don't know why these things happen. We shall rejoice at having Sharon as our family member, but the grieving shall take a long, long time.

...and tonight, there is a new, beautiful and VERY bright star in the sky...
The Spirit of Ren...
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Anna Iram on November 26, 2008, 08:26:10 PM
I'm so sorry Amras. Of course I'll send thoughts and prayers for your friends. For you as well.

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Post by: lady serena on November 26, 2008, 08:35:58 PM
My condolences and prayers.
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Post by: Lady Nicolette on November 26, 2008, 09:06:32 PM
So sorry to hear of this loss, Amras.
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Post by: Taffy Saltwater on November 26, 2008, 09:35:22 PM
O my dear, I am so sorry that your friend has passed.  My thoughts go out to you and her family.  Peace.
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Post by: SirBlackFox on November 26, 2008, 09:48:08 PM
I'm with you mate, if not in person then in spirit.
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Post by: Lady Neysa on November 26, 2008, 09:55:29 PM
Amras, I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend..may you and her family find comfort and healing. 
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Ferret on November 26, 2008, 09:58:07 PM
I am truly sorry you lost such a dear friend. You, and her family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Later tonight I will look for her star.
Ferret
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Post by: DeadBishop on November 26, 2008, 10:48:02 PM
Condolences, my friend.
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Post by: Lady Amy of York on November 26, 2008, 10:52:07 PM
sending prayers  of  comfort  your  way  and  to your  friends  family.
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Post by: Lady Renee Buchanan on November 27, 2008, 08:13:18 AM
I am sorry for your loss.  We will keep you, Sharon, Stan, and their families in our prayers.
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Post by: lordwriothsley on November 27, 2008, 08:56:22 AM
Oh my what a terrible thing to happen especially on Thanksgiving Day.Amras you,your friends,and all their families are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on November 28, 2008, 05:37:39 PM
I thank you all! Your thoughts mean the world to the family and to the Clan.

This Thanksgiving, we are rededicating ourselves to what is truely important in life, friends and family, especially friends who are family.

Among all her other attributes, I'll miss her laugh and smile the most...

Arrangements are being made there in Kempner, Texas. We are making our own travel plans, and will be wheels up soon.

Again, very humble thanks. You are all the best!!

P.S. Did you see that beautiful arrangement of Jupiter and Venus in close allignment in the western sky this evening??  Sharon's up there, being gorgeous again...

Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: John on November 28, 2008, 06:38:06 PM
I'm so sorry Amras, way too young. 
I got to visit with you and Sharon at scarby a couple times.  I liked her very much.
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Tygrkat on November 28, 2008, 07:54:57 PM
My thoughts are with you, Amras, and your friends and family. May you all find the peace you deserve, and the strength that you need.
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on November 29, 2008, 12:06:30 PM
My humble thanks to you both.
John, Sharon had great times at Scarby!!

From the Sheppard Funeral Home  (Copperas Cove, Texas) website...

Obituaries
Sharon Paxton Lacny
(August 17, 1970 - November 26, 2008)

Funeral services for Mrs. Sharon Paxton Lacny are scheduled for 11:00a.m., Thursday, December 4, at the Sheppard Chapel of Memories. Burial will follow at the Smith Cemetery in Kempner, Texas.
Mrs. Lacny was born August 17, 1970, in Baltimore, Maryland.

She married John S. Lacny in Honolulu Hawaii on July 30, 1993. She was a technical writer for McLane in Temple, Texas.

Survivors: Husband: John S. Lacny of Kempner, Tx.

Mother: Alma Paxton Cottingham of Kempner, Tx.

Cousins: Chadwick Chennault of Austin, Texas Joseph Chennault of Las Vegas, NV.

Aunts: Shirley Marshall, Sarah Seay and Alice Mitchell.

Godmother: Sharon Cantrell

The family will receive friends Wednesday evening, 6-8p.m., December 3, 2008 at the funeral home.



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Post by: Rani Zemirah on November 29, 2008, 07:59:57 PM
Sending comforting thoughts and healing energy to you and your clan on the loss of so luminous a member.
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Post by: Joyce "Delfinia DuSwallow" Howard on November 30, 2008, 01:22:22 PM
Amras, thoughts and prayers to you and Sharons family. God Bless.
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Post by: Capt. Morgan on December 01, 2008, 07:26:46 AM
For death is no more than a turning of us over from time to eternity.  ~William Penn

Thoughts and prayers with you all....
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Post by: DonaCatalina on December 01, 2008, 08:35:23 AM
Condolences to you, your friends and Sharon's family. A sad loss indeed.
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Post by: Trillium on December 01, 2008, 08:42:54 AM
Sending out lots of comforting hugs, my friend.
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Scotsman on December 01, 2008, 08:51:43 AM
God Bless brother ... sorry it took so long for me to find this! Our prayers are with you ... a big hug is waiting for you when I see you again! Let me know if you need anything.
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on December 01, 2008, 11:43:47 AM
Again, humble thanks...

Scotsman, just let all the old veterans at the home know that we are burying a young veteran who was the devoted wife of an active duty warrior...they'll know what to do...

Love to all!
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on December 07, 2008, 07:35:00 PM
The Maryland entourage has returned from the sad trip to Kempner.
The services were beautiful, with a motorcade to the cemetary that was longer than could be seen across the horizon...Sharon touched so many lives.

She is buried in an old, quiet country grave yard, surrounded by the prairy animals and horses she loved.
She truly epitomized the Spirit of Ren.

Here is a picture of dear Sharon with her husband, my friend Stan, at Scarby in April.
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v222/AmrasElfwine/P4190085-1.jpg)

Huzzah!!
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Fairyfly on December 07, 2008, 08:41:31 PM
Am, I am so sorry I have read this so late. My thoughts are with you and Sharon's family. Tonight a candle is lit to shine with her bright star! *HUG*
Title: Re: A Squirrel Friend Has Passed
Post by: Amras Elfwine on December 09, 2008, 09:07:50 AM
We thank yuh, lass!

I must admit, I was feeling very low this past week, but Sharon's voice came to me in a dream last night...plain as the moon...and she said "will you just get over it and enjoy life!" Sounded just like her!

I think I have a new guardian angel... 8)