heartbroken

[Ferret]

Please seek help when ever you need it. Where ever you need it. Others have gone through losses before you. And may well help you through these times.

You are still in my thoughts and prayers.
Ferret

[Lady_Glorianna]

Well, here I go again:

Last night, I did not see the doctor, I saw his PA. She said that she will re-write and re-submit the papers. She said some of the things that Department of Labor suggested are actually contraindicated for fusions. In any case and to satisfy Department of Labor she gave me a referral for pain management injections. I told her I did not want to go back to who I saw before so she referred me to someone else. I called this morning and left a message as I got the office machine.

I did not seek to have the new surgery ASAP because: a) I went back to check the paperwork received from the insurance and the exemption from paying deductibles was only for Ron (..."for this patient for this calendar year") so I would have had to pay anyway
and b) there is a problem with my leave so I had no way of covering my absense from work and my pay.

[Lady Amy of York]

UGH !   Don't  you just love  doctors  and  insurance  companies  !   I am  so sorry   you are going  thru all of  this  !     Please  feel free to gripe  , scream, shout, cry  on here  all  you want.   We  are  here  for  you.   Hugs  and  love.

[Lady_Glorianna]

I will go into work early tomorrow so that I can get out early and head over to my brother's house in Virginia. I think that spending some time with my nephew (he is 4) will do me some good. I will have the laptop with me so you might hear from me throughout.

[Lady Amy of York]

Being around  small children    can help  bring a  smile   to  your  face.  I know being around  my  son who is  five,  helps  make  me  smile  when  I am  down.  something about  the   youth , sweetness, gentleness  and  innoccence  of  a child.
     I know  this Thanksgiving  may be  hard  on you, but I hope  that somehow  it will be   a happy  one  for  you  !   Hugs  and  love  !

[Lady_Glorianna]

It's 6 weeks today. I do have to admitt that my nephew has been a great distraction as the energizer bunny pales next to him and he keeps coming to me to show me things or to simply give me a kiss.

[lordwriothsley]

Lady Glorianna I'm glad to see that your spirits have been somewhat lifted.You are still in my thoughts and prayer's M'lady.

[Lady_Glorianna]

I am back home. Thought about this and other things to follow....

[Lady_Glorianna]

Well, I wrote to his mom to see if she wanted me to get the rest of his things out of her house. Basically but not directly, she called Ron a lier, and me a lier, thief, ingrate and greedy.  She finished by saying that neither me nor my family was welcomed at her house. I prepped a response but did not send it. I asked my father for advice and will also ask the hospice bereavement person. Part of me wants to really respond but part of me says what's the point, she will never get it, it's official and these people are out of your life. I feel hurt and confused and oddly enough, I am glad Ron is not here to see or deal with all of this.

[DonaCatalina]

It's unfortunate that deaths seem to bring out the worst and the best in people. I think the former in her case. I pray you have the strength not to let her take out her pain on you.
All of us here are with you in spirit.

[Amras Elfwine]

Thinkng of you, M'lady. This is all you needed right now.
One option...you may want to consider taking legal counsel in this matter.

Sending good thoughts your way!!
Peace!
Amras

[Master James]

It is indeed quite sad that she has to be that way.  Don't get mad at her though.  Pitty her for she sadly doesn't get it and hasn't learned her lessons in this life yet.  Pray that she does but don't waste your energy on her.  Save that for yourself.  Prayers and good thoughts as always still headed your way.

[Ferret]

Don't worry about her, not worth it. You have more important things to work on right now. You.
Best wishes !
Ferret

[Lady Amy of York]

 There are people  and  then there are human beings  who care and  understand.  She  deffinitely does  not fall under  the latter.  Don't let her get  to you.   You have  far more grace  and  class  then she   ever will.      Hand  in there hon.   
      Hugs  and  love  being sent  your  way !

[lordwriothsley]

M'lady Gloriana this is really and truly the last thing that you need to be dealing with right now.You are still in my thoughts and prayers at this moment.